Should you have trust in your relationship?

 Should you have trust in your relationship even though you’ve been hurt before? 

To have a successful relationship you need to be able to trust your partner and he needs to be able to trust you.   But if he’s let you down, and you end up being been hurt should you have trust in your relationship lasting and being a happy one?  Should you have trust in him not to let you down again?  And how long after trust is broken should you forgive and forget?  Read the rest of this entry »

Is the communication in your relationship dead?

You know you need to communicate how you really feel with your partner, but you’re put off because in theory telling your partner something that you’ve been putting off, sounds good  in theory but in practice you usually end up in an argument.

You may want to make changes but lack the confidence or the practice to make this your reality.  So if the communication in your relationship is in all sense of the word- dead- read below some new strategies that will increase your confidence in expressing how you feel, so that you can communicate with ease.  Read the rest of this entry »

The top 5 long term relationship problems you need to be aware of?

Relationship differences can get out of hand!

I don’t know if you’ve noticed but a lot of relationship advice you’ll find on the web is aimed at women and men who are dating, single women who want to know how to get a boyfriend, men who want pick up lines, people who want divorce advice and even those who are looking to have an affair- discreet of course But what about those of us who are in long term relationships and who want to stay that way?  Where do we get our relationship advice? Read the rest of this entry »

Want help in your new relationship? (pt.1)

Want help with your new relationship?-  How to avoid 3 of the biggest problems  a new relationship can bring. 

Being in a new relationship is a mixture of excitement, anticipation, fear and apprehension.   This 3 part article shows you what can help you with your new relationship, what threatens your happiness within your new relationship, and what you can do today to avoid 3 of the biggest problems a new relationship can bring.

Part 1- 7 tips that will help your new relationship survive the first few months.

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Eliminate the biggest threat to your relationship with 3 easy strategies

Do you give up what’s most important to you in order to keep harmony within your relationship?

Have you noticed that your behaviours and habits have changed, specifically the one’s your partner doesn’t approve of?

Yes!

The biggest threat to your relationship is always being willing to compromise- so stop making compromise your default position

If you want to understand what makes relationships easier to handle, take note of what most of my clients have had to learn the hard way,  and understand that compromise though sounds good,  ISN’T ALWAYS GOOD FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP. Read the rest of this entry »

Warning! Your assumptions could lead to relationship break up!

Do you want your relationship to be better than it is at present? 

Do you want more intimacy, more fun, better communication, better sex, more time together, more passion? 

You can have this but…

If I told you that one of the things that stands in your way is the assumptions you make- would you believe me?

Focus on how much you assume from your partner because it’s what is leading to relationship breakdown

There isn’t anybody who wouldn’t want a better relationship and wouldn’t want to know how to make sure their relationship would last for ever and be as good at the end as it was at the beginning Read the rest of this entry »